Thursday, 30 May 2013

Dark Side

As the saying goes " Everyone has an angel in them." Likewise I think "Everyone has a devil in them." Your dark side is what you hate most in yourself or what you fear most. It’s your fear of failure, it’s your extreme shyness or your sexual compulsion. Or maybe a drug or alcohol addiction or an aggressive way of dealing with your closest family and friends.
The dark side is also what you hate most in others. Every time a person is making you nuts, it’s because that person touched a very delicate part of your dark side. You hate it when someone tells you his mother comes home late drunk. You cry when someone tells you her boyfriend walks out of her. You freak out when someone asks you for a loan. You become depressed when someone tells you her boss is making suggestive move towards her. You go crazy and start yelling when someone tells you he is going to be late for the movie.
“I am not this person, I can’t be that bad"

We cannot let go of our dark side because it is an experience, a part of our life and perhaps a part of our childhood that we are trying to forget. A memory that is etched in our mind even when we are 50s? 60? 70? A fear of rejection, a fear of abandon, an aggressive impulse  or a compulsion. BUT, we can learn to accept our dark side. Talk to someone close (there is no need to hide, no one is perfect) and start identify your reaction to the stuff that you don't like. Soon, you will realise that there is only 1 or 2 incidents that you have to deal with and accept. Everyone has a dark side. Not talking about it or showing it doesn't make one more perfect. We have just learned to accept.
"It is still me, only a better me."
 When Synjari, owner and designer of Senzafine, passed us some stuff she has for the World Goth Fair, I had so much fun styling and taking this picture for this write up. I have always wanted to do a Gothic theme and it wasn't too hard with the outfit and furniture from Senzafine.
She uses a generous dark red velvet spread on the mahogany furniture pieces which truly look remarkable in any Gothic home. The Miette dress comes in various colours and includes a flattering corset that is popular during the Victorian and medieval ages. Gothic clothing is incomplete without Gothic boots and the Callisto Boots from Senzafine at the Genre too comes with various colours to suit every taste.
Head down to the World Goth Fair now before it ends  31 May. 50% to 100% of the sales proceeds goes to the Sophie Lancaster Foundation. Sales at Genre ends 12 June.

Style Card:

Outfit: Senzafine ~ Miette Dress [Deadly Nightshade] (@ World Goth Fair)
Shoe: Senzafine ~ Callisto Boots [Espresso] (@Genre)
Stocking: That's Amore ~ Black Fishnet stockings
Hair:  EMO-tions ~ Maren
Skin: Realistic Skins - Willow Skin Fantasy Goth Special5
Ear: Libertine ~ Classic Rock Elf Ear
Nail: Mandala ~ Nail PALETTE 2/short
Accessories: Heartskin ~ Teeth, Hebenon Vial ~ Against the Stream Lip and Nose Ring (Mesh),
Makeup-: Mad ~ Goth Lips II, Corvus : Eye Scar

Furniture: Senzafine ~ Evendim Accent Table, Table Lamp, Arm Chair, Folding Screen and Rug (@World Goth Fair)

Pose: DelMay ~ black stand 1

everybody's got a dark side.
do you love me?can you love mine?
nobody's a picture perfect but we're worth it.
you know that we're worth it.
will you love me?even with my dark side?

Friday, 24 May 2013

Black is Classic II

You will never believe me when I said it took me a week just to get the perfect shot for this blog entry. Why? My laptop is overworked and it crashes each time I take a snapshot with the high graphics. It is so tiring..... But, I can't give up. I just got to show you this bustier dress from Masoom with the awesome accessories I've found from L'accessories.
This stunning mini length bustier dress features a tutu style mesh skirt, black marble effect bodice with sweetheart neckline and plunging scoop back for a sultry finish. Team this glitzy dress with the one-of-its kind of accessories for the coolest chic look.

Style Card:

Outfit: Masoom ~ Mira Dress (@ Designer Circle)
Hair: TuTy ~ Limbo Wet look hair
Eyebrow: 22769 ~ [femme] Dryad Head Piece (@ L'accessories)
Handbag: Pure Poison ~ Persia Clutch (@ L'accessories)
Bangles: Finesmith~ Sura Bracelet

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Wednesday, 15 May 2013

Black is Classic

 If you love Black as much as I do, you really have to head down to the Blackonly EVENT. It is a one-stop for all your needs; from hats, outfits, shoes, accessories, tattoos and even poses.
The classic little black outfit can go a very long way. It can move you seamlessly from the office to a party - all with the addition or removal of the right accessories and complementary clothing. But when many women are relying on their little black dress/ outfit to beautify their wardrobe and make them look fantastic, it can be hard to stand out among all the other.
Here are some suggestions for dressing up your little black piece so that you stand out from the crowd:
1) Pick the Right Outfit for the Right Occasion. For evening dress, it  can be slinkier and yet remain well-shaped. The length should end on the knee. For day wear, it can be anything with a softer fabrics and lightweight wool crepe is a good summer fabric if wearing a black dress or pants.
2) Add headwear and hair accessories to the list of possible dress-ups for the little black number. A well placed hat can be suitable for special events
3) If you don't mind wearing gloves, they can really dress up the little black dress. White gloves for the daytime and black gloves for the evening can work wonders.
4) Use jewelry to brighten up the little black outfit. The little black piece provides a magnificent backdrop for showing off your favourite jewelry pieces.


If you can't get enough of [Masoom], here's the taxi to their mainstore.......

Style Card (left)
Outfit: Masoom ~ Incurable Outfit (@ Blackonly EVENT)
Hair: Dura ~ Boy 40
Accessories: RealEvil ~ Black Heart Necklace and NOX Dulce Bracelet, Mandala ~ MilkyWay Saga Black Ring, Hebenon Vial ~ Against the Stream Mesh Nose and Lip rings
Shoe: MV ~ Damask Heels

Style Card (Right)
Outfit: Masoom ~ Cured Dress (@ Blackonly EVENT)
Hair: Truth ~ Madaline
Hat: Glam Affair ~ Giant Dish Hat (@ L'accessoires)
Necklace: PP ~ Linne Transparent Diamonds
Glove: Danielle ~ Members Gift, Quinn Mint ~ fingerless Glove Cuts
Shoe: HOC Industries - Noir Stilettos

Thursday, 9 May 2013

A Sizzling Hot Day

I love spending my day at the beach.
I love the embrace of the warm sun, the smell of the salty sea and the feeling of the sea breeze blowing on my face.
I love watching the waves and listening to the birds,
I love to cycle, roller blade or just lie on the white sandy beach
and people watch. 
I love watching the kids build a tall sandcastle and how they fuss when the sandcastle topples,
I love watching loving couples lying close to each other on the sand, stealing glances at each other,
I love watching families chattering and laughing at the beach.

Of course,
I love wearing the sexiest bikini to the beach and be watched by others.
At [Masoom],
Stuff in Stock, I found the exact piece I would love to have.
The white bikini against my sunburned skin.
The white flowy skirt flows with the wind.
The Anu dress comes with the hat that provides shade from the Sun.

Style Card:
Outfit: [Masoom] ~ Anu Dress (@ Stuff in Stock)
Hair: Catwa ~ Mesh Wet Lucy
Accessories : Finesmith ~ Belly Flower Ring, Digital Aura ~ Bansai Bangle
Poses: [Masoom] ~ Divall Poses @ Trph4  runway perfect hunt gift

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